The Next Chapter

“Wow.” The words came out as a whisper while I read the offer letter on my computer screen, “I have been accepted to attend the University of Oxford.”

Picture from @compscioxford.

From a young age, I have been curious about the people and the world around me. Intrigued on why people act and react the way that they do. Of course, at a younger age, my world was smaller. First, in Guadalajara, México, where I was born. Later, it grew to an international level when I moved to the state of Georgia in the United States at the age of 9.

In the US, my first best friend was Japanese. Sadly, I had to say good-bye after two years of knowing her because she moved back to Japan with her family. It would not be until 14 years later that Mai and I would finally reunite in Tokyo and Yokohama.

Mai and I, 2003. Peachtree City, Georgia, USA.

Mai (left), her parents (middle) and I, 2018. Yokohama, Japan.

As I have grown older, my curiosity to understand the world and the people in it grows too. I have come to realize that the world sometimes works, and it sometimes, in a catastrophic level, does not. It can be a very complicated and messy place. Particularly, when there are people with different world views that might not see the world for what it is. Therefore, the challenges in today’s society only seem to keep growing.

Misinformation and different realities put our lives at risk, but I believe that most people are more alike than we think. My experience has been that we all ultimately want the same thing. We all want to feel safe, have the best quality of life, give our kids the best education with the hope that they grow into remarkable individuals, and provide our elders and families with care. These realities tend to be universal.

At Oxford, I will be studying diplomacy. A field that I believe is essential for our global survival. The hope and passion I have for the world led me to achieve what did not seem possible.

Now, I understand the world better. I understand that the only way to save us from ourselves is to work together because not one individual (or nation) can do it alone. More than intelligence, we need wisdom. People who are smart, but more importantly, people that want to do the right thing. I see a lot of challenges ahead, but I also see a lot of opportunities. It will be up to us to decide what kind of future we want for ourselves and for the generations that follow.

Mai has allowed me to use the pictures and her name for this blog post.

A Turning Point: The Future is Written by Us

I had originally written the following the day Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were sworn in as President and Vice President of the United States of America. This was written on January 20, 2021:

Relief is what I currently feel. Relief and a cautious hope. These past few years have been exhausting for many of us. Sometimes to the point where we became numb, and tired, and hopeless. Every day was a story more outrageous and horrendous than the last. Every day I was desperately trying to make sense of things that made absolutely no sense.

Today, many people are hurting, many people are facing racial, health, economic, and environmental emergencies. Realities that needed to be addressed years ago, and that today, can no longer be ignored.

This past year has made me reflect on myself like never before. Reflect on what is important, and how I would like the world to look like. I am not perfect by any means, and have made my fair share of mistakes, but I am willing to learn, to listen, and to hold myself accountable. I have come to realize that change is inevitable, and that change is done collectively - as a community. That not one single person can do it by themselves - although, the willingness to change does have to come from the individual first.

At the end of the day, what is right is right. Always. We get to decide wether or not we choose that path. To choose the way that will move us forward - together - in a country, and in a world, that is becoming more and more interconnected.

Today, and every day, we have a choice. We have the power to decide what direction our lives, and the lives of the people around us, will take. Now, the question is, do we have the courage to continue?

The Importance of Diplomacy in the Modern World

My passion for diplomacy is a response to today's geopolitical uncertainty and conflict. Solutions to global challenges require collective action dependent on a nuanced understanding of the interests of our partners and adversaries. In fact, I see diplomacy as the only sustainable path to peace.

In a world where complexity, contrasting perspectives, and misunderstandings come in abundance, it is pivotal to come into any room with a strong moral character, knowledge of the history and of our counterparts, and a firm comprehension of the line between realism and idealism.

The objective of good diplomatic policy is having aspirations, ideals, and a vision of what the end goal should be, but also recognizing the world for how and what it is, and analyzing ways to move towards progress. The end goal for any successful nation should be a more peaceful, more inclusive, and a more tolerant society. That will become a triumph in all sectors: economically, politically, and socially. The trajectory of this planet has been of progress, but we must recognize that progress never moves in a straight line.

As I grow older and aspire to understand the world better - both nationally and internationally - I have come to the realization that curiosity, dialogue, and understanding are critical to reconciling contrasting worldviews. Diplomacy has had consequential outcomes throughout history, both beneficial and detrimental for generations that followed, and for that essential reason I believe it is crucial to have leaders that work hard in getting it right. Let’s not be afraid to ask questions, to surround ourselves with people smarter than us, to listen and understand the other side, and to stay true to oneself and who we represent. I never said it would be easy, but the alternative is far worse.

We share the world with almost 8 billion people. All of us with different histories, perspectives, needs, and understanding of the world. Our aim should be a planet where we push towards solutions for the global challenges we all face together.